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Sex!?!

Posted by on Sep. 13, 2007 at 8:12 AM
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ok thankfully my sex drive has not diminished being pregnant (I am 32 weeks 1 day) BUT even though it is still psychically exciting and I get off everytime... lately the last few times it has been as good emotionally... all I can think about is the baby... now before I got preggers we use to do it all hardcore and porno style... but now we don't (duh) but it still feels like no matter how slow and gentle he goes, it is shaking my stomach too much... my doctor has not said anything about not having sex... and I know it is really all in my mind... but how do I take the focus off of the baby and put it back on my man during sex!?!





 

Posted by on Sep. 13, 2007 at 8:12 AM
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fallenraven
by on Sep. 13, 2007 at 8:20 AM
my dr told me that the baby actually enjoys the rocking of sex.

im so glad that im not the only one lol. we used to be real hardcore too. but its somehow turned into the infamous lovemaking i always heard everyone talk about.  unless your dr has told you otherwise, you can carry on your sex life as normal.  theres really nothing you can do to take your mind off the baby during sex bc thats what got you the baby in the first place. lol.

just try to look at it as the 2 of you as hard as it may sound,

gl
allisonsmommy
by on Sep. 13, 2007 at 8:31 AM
lol...I have told my husband so many times that its so hard to be in the mood that while he is kissing me..etc..I feel like something is trying to break through my belly LOL. Not the most romantic feeling now.
Oceanlotus
by on Sep. 18, 2007 at 12:26 AM
Babies LOVE sexual energy- when we are turned on, endorphins and seratonin are flooding our body and our baby's body- this is SO healthy for both of us!!  Baby's were made from sexual energy for a reason- this energy is our essence and our life force.  I personally want my child to grow up with a healthy sexual identity and to recognize that it is a perfectly wonderful and natural part of being human. Not that I'll be having sex in front of him after a few months... but while he's in the womb, I figure the bliss from my partner and I is nourishment for all of us!
proudmommy2be
by on Sep. 18, 2007 at 12:41 AM
THERE R POSITIONS U CAN USE WHILE PREGNANT! 



If you're pregnant, or just found out you were, you're probably wondering what the best pregnant sex positions are. Because your body doesn't change that much in the first trimester, sex can pretty much continue as it has in the past so there really isn't a need to be concerned about pregnant positions for sex. Later, however, as the uterus grows, some natural positions may become more difficult to perform and will require you to choose better sex positions while pregnant. Sex expert Pepper Schwartz, PhD, offers these suggestions on the best pregnant sex positions:

Spoon: The spoon position can be very cozy and intimate. In this case you should lie on your side curled in a C, with your partner facing your back and curled around you. He then enters your vagina from behind while both of you are lying on your sides.




Side by side:
Another good choice for late pregnancy, this position will control thrust and keep weight off your belly. You and your husband lie side by side, facing each other. He slips his leg over yours (your leg can be either straight and to the side or bent at the knee) and enters you from an angle. In a variation of this, you lie on your back and he on his side. Put your leg that's closest to him over his legs. He can enter you from the back and side, and still have his face next to yours.


Woman on top:
This can be a satisfying position during late pregnancy, allowing you to control pacing and be more comfortable. Make sure, however, that he doesn't enter you too deeply.


Edge of the bed:
Try lying down face-up on the edge of the bed, with your legs spread and the soles of your feet on the floor. Your partner can stand or bend over you. This position, however, does allow him to thrust more deeply, so you'll have to tell him how gentle and slow you want him to be.

If you find that intercourse is too uncomfortable as your belly grows, explore other types of sexual gratification, such as oral sex (don't blow air into the vagina) or mutual masturbation.

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