I'm 23 wks pregnant and my belly is significantly bigger than my friend who is just 20 weeks. My belly has been quite big for a while now. I have heard that I'm bigger because this is my 4th pregnancy. And even felt the baby move earlier than she did. I know that EVERYONE is different. However, this will be the first that I have carried this far. 3 previous loses. Has anyone else heard that even though you haven't carried full term, that could be the reason why I'm showing so much more and earlier? My friend and I are about the same size, and she hardly has a bump! Sorry no pics, lost the USB cord to my camera. I'm still in my pre prego jeans, but it's quite obvious that I am pregnant!
Big babies don't run in my family. When I had my ultrasound, the baby is measuring only at 15.5 ounces, which is normal. I've seen other pictures on here of other mothers who are actually bigger than I am and only 22 weeks, but they have had multiple pregnancies. I'm not as big as some of them, but having a large baby does concern me because this is the first I will actually give birth too!
You may just be going to have a big baby... I am only 23 weeks too but I am the same size as one of my friends who is 35 weeks but my first baby was 9lb 4oz which is pretty big. I am scared because I have heard that the second is always bigger than the first and I had a VERY hard time pushing the first one out. lol P.S. Big babies don't run in my family either
Oh my god are you serious? I heard they're smaller...I have one due in January and my first was 10.5 and I'm working really, really, REALLY hard on a VBAC.... don't say these sort of things!!! :(
Quoting britmulvihill:You may just be going to have a big baby... I am only 23 weeks too but I am the same size as one of my friends who is 35 weeks but my first baby was 9lb 4oz which is pretty big. I am scared because I have heard that the second is always bigger than the first and I had a VERY hard time pushing the first one out. lol P.S. Big babies don't run in my family either
Well like you said everyone is different. Is this her first pregnancy? I am sorry about your losses, but my guess would be that is why you are showing bigger than her because your body is already accustom to having a baby inside. But it could also be your baby is bigger than hers, or hers has not gone through a growth spurt yet or something. There really could be a million reasons, but as long as you are okay and she is okay I wouldn't worry about it. I am 21 weeks and people have just now started asking me about being pregnant (people who wouldn't know otherwise) but you can see by my avatar that I am very noticably pregnant.
My friend and I were only 2 weeks apart with our boys. She looked months ahead of me the whole way through. She did gain over 2x the amount I gained though (I gained only 20 lbs). I thought her son was going to be huge, but her son was just under 7 lbs. She gained less with her second though, that baby was only a few ounces smaller.
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- mommatobe11309
on Jul. 3, 2009 at 9:15 AM