MIL calls me fat....! Calling all Smart Alecks! edited *pic*

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  • iluvmommyhood58
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:21 PM
• "F*ck you!" That's what I'd say. I bet that would catch HER off guard. lol.

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  • britt6
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:23 PM

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  Quoting iluvmommyhood58:
  
  "F*ck you!" That's what I'd say. I bet that would catch HER off guard. lol.

  
  HAHAHAHAHA that would be hilarious!! I would want to see the look on her face after that LOL

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  • AlwaysExpecting
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:25 PM

• no kidding that would be priceless!!!
  

  Quoting iluvmommyhood58:
  
  "F*ck you!" That's what I'd say. I bet that would catch HER off guard. lol.

  
  

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  • AlwaysExpecting
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:31 PM

• yeah!  When we grow up...oops I mean when our *kids Grow up (lol...)

  Lets be nice MILS!!! Ya know the kind that come over and bake and babysit!! Not the bullying kind!    Of course we have to grow up first....LOL

  I feel a little immature asking for help with mean comments to say to my bully! LOL
  

  Quoting vannahsmom07:
  
  

  ugh my mil sounds like the same woman... she is a bully too! lets never be bullies when we become MIL's!!
  

  Quoting AlwaysExpecting:
  
  

  I love the wrinkles comment!!

  See the only problem about confronting her is that it would make her happy to know that it bothered me,  and if I did, she would be gossiping about it to everyone, and I would turn into the thin-skinned girl who can't take a joke. 

  And When I don't say anything, she feels like she has the upper hand.

  She is a bully.  She really is, I  know it sounds stupid. 

  I have talked to hubby and we both agree that the best strategy is to beat her at her own game!

  Quoting tiny_mama:
  
  

  mil "wow you have gotten fat!"

  
  

  you "really? *lean closer* have you always had that many wrinkles?"

  you "have your boobs always been that saggy?"

  you "I might be fat, but you're ugly and I can lose weight"

  you "yeah, well you're old"
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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  • JSMITH07
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 5:33 PM

• SHES JUST JELOUS N SHALLOW,IKNOW THE TYPE. INSECURE TOO. PEOPLE LIKE THAT FIND ANY WAY TO MAKE FUN OF A PERSON TO MAKE THEMSELF FEEL GOOD,,, N THE GOOD FEELING IS JUST A HIGH THAT DONT LAST TOO LONG. IM 5'3 N 133 LBS. I LOVE MY SIZE N TRY NOT 2 BE ANY SMALLER!!!! HONESTLY, I USED TO BE TO THIN N LOOKED LIKE I WAS ON DRUGS LOL! JUST INFORM HER THAT YOULL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL CHILD TO SHOW FOR UR WEIGHT GAIN,, WHICH U CAN LOOSE!! ASK HER Y SHE CHOOSES 2 BE ANOREXIC. AND INFORM HER UR HAPPY THAT WAY,,, N JUST THEN EAT SOMTHIN REAL FATTNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!  LOL JK. BUT I WOULD.

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  • jesselswick
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:16 PM

• A friend of mine actually had the opposite happen, someone called her anorexic, so after she had the baby the same chick made another comment about how she looked and she was like "yea food, who needs it its for losers" You could say something like "yeah not eating, only losers dont eat" or something like that or maybe something like, "I've seen better figures on skeletons" I dont know something like that. Maybe, men like the feel of a women next to them but not when that feel is your bones.

  115 pounds for your height is not fat. and if shes only a little over 100 lbs and not, there is something wrong. Maybe you could use that to your advantage.

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  • BooBear81
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 10:39 PM

• Just say "really? you think so? My ob says that I am doing a great job making a healthy baby and that I could stand to gain a few more pounds..."

  There is nothing she can say to that- not one word that would make her look good.

  No need to be a smart aleck- no need to be mean. Just state the truth.

  You are healthy, you are growing a human being inside of you, you are beautiful- and her ugly words can't erase that reality. Oh, and three healthy grandbabies aren't good enough for this woman??? Sheesh.

  Actually, thinking about it- it sounds like your MIL has an eating disorder and she is trying to transfer her sickness.

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  • Armywife6
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 10:51 PM

• I agree!! Although I know it would feel really good to say something witty to her. But if you want to beat her at her own game then I think this would be the best way.
  

  Quoting BooBear81:
  
  

  Just say "really? you think so? My ob says that I am doing a great job making a healthy baby and that I could stand to gain a few more pounds..."

  There is nothing she can say to that- not one word that would make her look good.

  No need to be a smart aleck- no need to be mean. Just state the truth.

  You are healthy, you are growing a human being inside of you, you are beautiful- and her ugly words can't erase that reality. Oh, and three healthy grandbabies aren't good enough for this woman??? Sheesh.

  Actually, thinking about it- it sounds like your MIL has an eating disorder and she is trying to transfer her sickness.

  
  

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  • SparklesNC
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 10:53 PM

• I'd smack her...plain and simple.  How rude!!

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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  • prego7386
  on Jul. 3, 2009 at 10:55 PM

• pssh just say "and you have gotten old!" BAM prob solved....if she gets to mad say "well i thought we were joking around here...i mean you were saying i was fat and i just KNOW you arent a mean person so i assumed we were poking fun" then she would either have to admit she is being mean OR swallow her pride...i doubt she will admit she is mean lmao
  

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