I am so sick for the past 2 months bein late on Aunt Flo!!! Really. Why can't it just start when it is supposed too? I even wrote down the date of the last period so I could calculate when I was 'supposed' to start. JFTR (just for the record) I was supposed to start on the 2nd. So I am only two days late. But it is just frustating because we use no type of BC (no condoms, no pill, no VCF, no pull and pray. NOTHING) So when I am late I always get all anxious and paranoid. And I am tired of always being late! I was excited cause on the 1st I went to the bathroom and had a very very little brown discharge, So I was like ok tomorrow... nope. Some want to come slap my ovaries and tell them they need to get themselves straight? Any one got some suggestions? Should I go get some BC or is it no big deal to have a screwed up cycle? JFTR we aren't trying to get PG but we aren't preventing it either-- kinda if it happens it happens type of attitude...
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I have two beautiful little girls by that method (not trying to/ not trying not to) I think it's kind of like trying to get pregnant but being in denial about it for some reason- I for one was too young with the first. And by the second our relationship was in great turmoil. (I left him at five months pregnant with my second- for being abusive and controlling) so by "not trying to or not to" I was able to pretend that it wasn't planned and then didn't have to answer to myself or anyone else for making a bad choice (because, haha, I didn't "make the choice" )
if you are not pregnant this time perhaps you should evaluate why you and s/o are not making a conscious and well thought out decision on this- but you are leaving it to fate instead.
If you are pregnant congratulations and good luck.
My cycles were always so messed up. DH and I tried for 5 years before conceiving the little one thats in there now. 5 long, hard, heartbreaking, gut wrenching, emotional years. I never used any for of BC (like you) and it took forever.
I used to stock up on pregnancy tests. I would always have atleast 15 in my cabinet because I was always praying for the day one would come out positive and it finally did.
I know how aggravating it can be. There is a medicine I forget the name but I think it starts with a V and it helps regulate your cycle but does not prevent pregnancy. I can't remember the name of it though. I never used it...but maybe you can talk to the pharmacist or a docotor about it and see if thats something you could use?
Good Luck
OK so today has come and still no sign of aunt flow... which puts me at 4 days late.... I can't take it anymore. Hubby wants to wait until I am a week late but I need to know! So I will test and come back and let you know whats going on
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I want one more!!!
- DaniJones86
on Jul. 4, 2009 at 10:16 AM