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Pregnancy After Miscarriage

Posted by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 8:23 AM
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Posted by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 8:23 AM
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marhia
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 8:53 AM

I just had one about a week ago, we decided that we would wait awhile before we try again so I got on BC. I think I just need time for myself.

sweetpeamama77
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 8:56 AM


Quoting marhia:

I just had one about a week ago, we decided that we would wait awhile before we try again so I got on BC. I think I just need time for myself.

So sorry for your loss!  Do make sure to take time to grieve, and don't let anyone tell you that you "can just try for another one" before  you are ready.  It is ok if it takes some time, and its ok if you decide you are ready. 

marhia
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 9:04 AM

Thannk you, As much as I want another baby I just know that I will not be ready anytime soon. I miss being pregnant but at the same time I cannot deal with being pregnant right away emotionally.

Quoting sweetpeamama77:


Quoting marhia:

I just had one about a week ago, we decided that we would wait awhile before we try again so I got on BC. I think I just need time for myself.

So sorry for your loss!  Do make sure to take time to grieve, and don't let anyone tell you that you "can just try for another one" before  you are ready.  It is ok if it takes some time, and its ok if you decide you are ready. 


mommyofone123
by Bronze Member on Aug. 12, 2009 at 9:16 AM
I'm not currently pregnant but after 2 rounds of fertility drugs I had gotten pregnant and then had a miscarriage. I later went on to have 2 daughters (both with the help of fertility treatments) but if anyone wants to talk I'm always here. :) It was really hard being pregnant with my first daughter after my miscarriage because there was that constant fear of "will I lose this baby too?" looking back though I regret feeling that way because I feel I missed out on some of the happiness that comes with being pregnant. With my 2nd daughter I enjoyed every minute of it, but the thought of possibly losing her was in the back of my mind occasionally. After I had my miscarriage I mentioned it to a few friends at church and was absolutely floored by the number of women who came forward and admitted they had lost a baby (or a few)also. I'm here if anyone wants to talk. :)
Have a good day!
Michelle
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by Silver Member on Aug. 13, 2009 at 3:52 PM

I am Samantha, I had a miscarriage in 1999 at 9.5 weeks along and in 2006 at 14 weeks along. I have 3 healthy boys. But since the birth of my youngest son I have had 2 surgeries on my cervix, one on my tubes and one on my ovaries. I also have intestinal cystitis. So I am almost 5 weeks pregnant (just found out) and I am scared to death. I really want a happy healthy pregnancy and baby despite my past health and miscarriages. I went to my family doc and the 28th I go to my ob gyn. I am more then willing to talk with any other mommies.

JasonsMom2007
by Silver Member on Aug. 13, 2009 at 3:56 PM

I lost my first baby July 21, 2006 at 10 weeks.  I became pregnant with my son right after my next cycle and he is now a very healthy 2 year old.  I am also 6 weeks pregnant with my third child and quite nervous!

 














mommy2lexinmark
by Silver Member on Aug. 14, 2009 at 2:57 PM

I had my 1st m/c after my 2nd child.....and it took us 8 months to get pregnant with my 3rd.....i then m/c in june this year, and now i am pregnant again....i am 5 weeks 5 day!!!

Alex ~ wifey to Mark


They call me mommy ~ Alexia Rose-5, Mark Ryan-3, and Cassidy Rayne-7 months


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mizz_gayle
by on Aug. 14, 2009 at 3:06 PM

HI IM TISCHEL I LOST MY BABY GIRL AT 23 WEEKS ON 12/30/07 AND I GOT PREGGY AGAIN THEN I LOST MY BABY BOY AT 23 WEEKS AGAIN ON 11/14/07 AND NOW IM 25 WEEKS WITH DIS BABY GIRL AND IM JUST PRAYING THAT EVERYTHING GOES OK THIS TIME AROUND

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norahsmommy
by Silver Member on Aug. 14, 2009 at 3:09 PM

A am currently almost 30 wks bregnant with our 4th baby.  i miscarried our 3rd at 12 wks less than a month before I got bregnant with this one The baby we lost was due in July.  That month was very hard for me.  I am nervous still about this bregnancy and worry about the baby.  I had bleeding at 6 wks with this baby and thought it was habbening again but things were fine.  Then they told me I have an Rh incombatablily with the baby and the rhogam shot isn't going to work for the broblem I have.  And I just finnished taking the 3 hour glucose tolerance test to diagnose gestational diabetes.  I wont know if I have it until at least monday.  So this bregnancy is far from carefree but I am thankful baby is healthy. 

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Lena-Loo
by on Aug. 15, 2009 at 8:56 PM

Well I mc my 5th baby on Tuesday. i am so confused right now. My hubby wants babies and i do to but I am so heart broken. I cant do "anything" with my hubby. I mean it is just gone. Any advicsurrendere?

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