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Need input. Im a little pi**ed off

Posted by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:03 PM
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So ds keeps taking paper and rolling it up and telling me its his smoke or his cigarrett. And neither dh or I smoke. Ds grandpa and my sil and my sister do. I am adgitated (sp) with this how do i stop this and how do i go about talking to the others about it because obviously I cant make them stop smoking.
TIA
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holmes212
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:06 PM
Bump
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flutterbeckie3
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:07 PM

How old is your ds? Is he able to understand if you tell him that smoking is unhealthy/bad for you?

PEEK05
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:08 PM

Tell him it's yucky and will make him sick.

holmes212
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:09 PM
Hes 3. I tell him when he does it that that is naughty and he shouldn't do that and when he asks where his papa is and if someone tells him hes out smoking we tell him papa is being naughty and smoking.
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Sam.Marie
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:10 PM
My oldest son did something similar for a while, we just told him that its icky and not to do it. He stopped doing it.

Otherwise you can ask that they stop smoking in front of him. That's about all you can do.
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Oneatatimemommy
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:12 PM

Maybe ask that they don't smoke in front of you DS.  Talk with DS about how smoking is bad for you and that you don't want him to act like he is doing something bad.

holmes212
by on Dec. 3, 2011 at 5:16 PM
I will try thanks ladies.
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