Does your kid favor you over DH? advice needed:/
I posted this in another group as well but just curios if anyone else has this problem?
My 4 year old daughter hates DH. but she was not always like this, she was daddys little girl for a while. At first I thought it was just because she is very attached to me but now whenever shes getting in trouble she yells and screams "daddy hates me!" even when im the one disciplining her. DH and I have tried so hard to explain that daddy doesnt hate her. She says he pays more attention to my other kids then he does to her so DH made more time to spend with her but she wont speak to him. She refuses to talk to him more than she has to. but she is all over me, DH feels bad because he thinks his kid hates him and ignores him. At this point I think its just a game to her, to see how mad she can get DH before he flips (which will never happen). but if my son is running around playing with DH then she will join in until she realizes she is having fun at DH is apart of it so she will walk away and continue to not talk to him, I dont know what to do! She gets in trouble for not talking to him but then she is short with him and only speaks to him when she has to and she will look right at him and walk over to me and say "mommy i love you!" which is why i think she is playing games....is this just a phase? ugh, anybody else have a kid who does this? suggestions? thanks!