Please before you all start thinking "bad mom bad mom hes 4 and not potty trained" please listen to my story.
My sons name is Jonathan and he will be 5 in June. I have been trying to potty train him for the past 2 1/2 yrs. I have tried disiplin and punishment and rewards and all that. Ive stood him in the corner and took his toys away and gave him a sucker for trying and all that jazz. He still refuses to "go potty" Getting him to put on underwear is like world war 3. He fights me and crys. And its not normal cry. No. When Jonathan cries he cries for like 2 hrs. He cries so bad to the point that he forgets what he was crying about and then when i try to sit him on the potty (he has his own) he screams that hes scared. I recently had a beautiful little girl who is now 6 months old and I dont know if Jonathan is acting out because he doesnt get 100% of mommy's attention anymore. But I have tried EVERYTHING but standing him on his head and im half tempted to stand him on his head. His dr thinks he had ADHD so I dont know if that has something to do with it or not but ive had it up to here with the fighting and the arguing and the crying. I dont know what to do anymore and I feel like a bad mom for him not being potty trained yet. HELP!!!!!!!! please