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4-Year-Old Forced to Exercise in the Snow Unclothed Will Break Your Heart (VIDEO)

Posted by on Feb. 10, 2012 at 12:35 PM
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4-Year-Old Forced to Exercise in the Snow Unclothed Will Break Your Heart (VIDEO)

Posted by Jacqueline Burt

boy underpants snow If you haven't seen this video of an adorable 4-year-old boy from China being forced by his father to exercise in the snow wearing nothing but shoes and bright yellow underpants, let me warn you: Viewing has been known to cause homicidal thoughts. Parents are particularly at risk. 

That was my first reaction when I saw this poor little thing sobbing hysterically from cold and fear while running and doing push-ups in the snow-covered street:

I want to find this boy's dad and I want to barricade him in a meat freezer until he turns into a solid block of ice.

How could anybody treat their own child -- any child -- this way?

Oh, but father He Liesheng insists he was doing his son a favor.

Yes, it's all part of an "intensive training regimen" the dad says he designed to "toughen up" the boy, who was born prematurely. It's not child abuse, he maintains:

"It's tough for me, too, when he cried out for my comfort. But I believe in 'no pain, no gain.' Like an eagle, I push my child to the limit so he can learn how to fly."

He even calls himself the "Eagle Dad."

And if that sounds suspiciously reminiscent of the "Tiger Mother," Liesheng is quick to point out their differences. According to Liesheng, he always respects his son's will -- unlike the Tiger Mother.

But I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this one. How does forcing a child to do push-ups in the snow when he's crying and begging you to pick him up and visibly trembling with cold have anything to do with respecting his will?

I'll buy that Liesheng doesn't believe he's doing his child any harm. He's obviously got some serious issues himself. But that doesn't mean what he's doing isn't child abuse.

Watch this clip and tell me ...


Do you think the dad who forced his child to suffer this way is guilty of child abuse?

Posted by on Feb. 10, 2012 at 12:35 PM
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Gweneveer
by Colleen on Feb. 10, 2012 at 12:40 PM

I refuse to watch it at all.  Yes, I think its child abuse!!  How awful!

TTC2Long
by Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 12:43 PM
I'm not going to watch that. I hope Chinese authorities do the right thing.
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twinners.mama
by Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 12:45 PM


Quoting Gweneveer:

I refuse to watch it at all.  Yes, I think its child abuse!!  How awful!

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2-point-doe
by Silver Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 3:05 PM

 Completely different culture. Would I do that to my child, no. Do I think that it is child abuse, not necessarily. Mean yes, permanently damaging, I doubt it.

lilbuff
by Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 3:19 PM
That poor kid. The cold part is the bothers me. However, my dad made me do stuff that I didn't want to do (like feed the sheep, or one time my sister and I had to dispose of a dead one, or bale hay) it really did make me stronger and I'm glad that I did it, even though at the time I was begging not to.
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sophiesmom07
by Platinum Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 5:19 PM

 I understand there are cultural difference, but this was so cruel. 

xixCandyxix
by Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 5:21 PM
Bump for later...
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stormystar15
by Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 5:23 PM
I wont even watch it but i dont see how it wouldnt be child abuse.
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SharonHernandez
by Member on Feb. 10, 2012 at 5:25 PM

 I think it is child abuse, thats terrible....poor kid.

Kelsie.Davison
by Kelsie on Feb. 10, 2012 at 6:01 PM
Completely agree

Quoting Gweneveer:

I refuse to watch it at all.  Yes, I think its child abuse!!  How awful!

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