My Daughter all of the sudden doesn't like my boyfriend anymore...What should I do?
I am the mother of two. A six year old and a 22 month old. The issue is my 22 month old. She all of the sudden doesn't like my boyfriend. She screams and cries and doesn't want anything to do with him.
Weird enough He watched her for me while I was working for about two months. She seemed fine with him at that time. Snuggling and playing and having normal time like a Dad would.
I can assure you that he has never ever physically hurt her. He has been nothing but caring with her. My boyfriend has changed since i met him and I wonder if it has anything to do with her behavior as well. He is stressed and not the same sweet person he was before his own personal situation went through lots of stress. Him and I have talked about this but can't put our finger on a reason why she would act so insane around him.
Since we now live together it has been hard. Not only on my daugher but for my older daughter, my boyfriend and myself. It has changed my own feelings over the whole situation and I am sure his feelings as well.
I need some sort of advice. We pinpointed a few things that may have effected her.
1. We sent her back to daycare instead of keeping her all day.
2. He has changed his personallity in my opinion pretty drastilcally. Although he doesnt think it is that much.
3. There was a car accident when he was driving. It was not a bad accident and she didn't even bump her head or have any injury but I think it made a impact on her.
From one mom to a million others can anyone please give me advice?
UPDATE: APRIL 2 2012
OK so a few days ago I left work and I got a text from my Now Ex Boyfriend that he moved out! Thanks God. Since this last post there has been a lot that has happened. One is I stopped my then boyfriend from being alone with my kids at all. Then, Him and I got in a fight because I caught him Taunting my daughter with a nasty face. No noise just a face. HE DENIED IT EVEN THOUGH I SAW IT. So we had a big huge blow out fight with me telling him I wish he would leave. Four days later he did. But He left a bed here he needs to come back and get. ANd I need to find a roomate to help me afford this house.. We love it here and I don't want to uproot my kids again.
Needless to say I went through all of his personal papers when he went to out of the house one day and found medical papers saying he is bipolar!!!!!! OMG! He lied to me and moved me out of my safe home with my two happy girls. So who knows what he put my kids through?
I have been praying and I am just so greatfull that my girls are happy and healthy. I pray now for a good roomate.
Thank you for all of you that had concern and shared your thoughts.
The baby was checked by the dr and she is fine. So I am thinking now that he is gone........She will feel more secure.
Also she finally met her daddy for the first time. She is going to be two at the end of this month. They are so in love with each other! It amazes me how blood really is a connection.
Thanks again Mommys.