Pick up my 23 month old ds from daycare to find him standing at the front desk because he’s in trouble. This is the 2nd day in a row that he’s been written up for hitting/slapping and kicking; however, they failed to give me info about yesterday’s incidents until this morning. Talking to the owner, I expressed some concerns about new class rosters starting Monday. He’ll be the biggest kid in his class and I’m afraid he will be mean to these new friends. The owner said, “He will have to be OK in this class because there’s no where else for him to go since he’s so immature with all the hitting.” Admittedly, we went through lots of hitting when he was 17-19 months, but moving him with the bigger kids has helped. I pointed out that I was unaware of any problems with hitting other than the last 2 days. I was completely offended she called him immature when there are kids in the class almost a year older that have consistently walked up and open handed slapped him and other kids in the face OR came up to hug them and shoved them on the floor. (We have in-classroom cameras so we’ve seen this first-hand). My kid’s immature….seriously? Am I wrong to be offended? BTW, I do not condone the last 2 days’ behavior.