Do your LOs throw temper tantrums every day?

Quoting erinsmom1964:

That is not a reasonable assumption at all.  that I do not tolerate a BEHAVIOR has nothing to do with her feelings.  See thats the problem many people don't know the difference and feel justified behaving badly because of how they feel.  4 kids I have never tolerated any type of this behavior...3 are now adults and we are still extremely close and they know they can talk to me about anything.......thats what I teach my kids.  It would be a much better world if more people understood the difference between feelings and behavior so the rest of us wouldn't have to put up with their fits and outbursts.  There would also be less people assaulted if more kids were taught how to control themselves instead of having parents who just refuse to deal with the tantrums making them think its ok to behave like a banshee when they have a negative or unwanted feeling.  Course we got mothers in other posts who think its acceptable to make everyone else tolerate their childs screaming fits because its what is best for THEIR child so this train of thought doesn't surprise me...sadens me but doesn't surprise me really.

Quoting Danita42:

 Looking back you did say you dont tolerate them in your house, so knowing what the word tolerate means thats why i would assume that.

I am not trying to be rude or anything, i dont care how other people parent their kids (besides abuse in all forms). Do what works for yours, thats how i feel, no judgement here.

 

Quoting erinsmom1964:

Quoting Danita42:

Why would you assume that?