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Only boy in his kindergarten class :(

Posted by on Aug. 4, 2012 at 12:26 AM
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Today I found out that my son will be the ONLY boy in his Kindergarten class. He attends a really small Lutheran school there's only 52 students in the whole school K-8. There will be 7 girls in the class, I'm not sure how I feel about  him to the only boy, my husband seems to think it's OK. what do u think ladies??

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Colleen86
by Member on Aug. 4, 2012 at 7:59 AM
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 lucky boy!

he will learn alot from these little girls. (how to be gentle, polite, ect)

.Angelica.
by Angie on Aug. 4, 2012 at 10:21 AM
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it's kind of odd but it wouldn't bother me. If it's a good school that is all that should matter.

alreadydidthis
by Member on Aug. 4, 2012 at 10:25 AM
That sucks. Id just make sure he does boy things my son was the only kid boy in the house this summer he has 2 sisters and 2 female cousins here. He started acting enotional like he was pmsing lol. So just becareful with that.
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Kris_PBG
by Silver Member on Aug. 4, 2012 at 10:51 AM

I think that is a shame...  :(

My kiddos are friends with boys and girls - but that would really bother them.

AnGLInterrupted
by Kendall on Aug. 4, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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Realistically, he needs other boys to play with.  Girls do things differently than boys.  He needs playmates that are more interested in bugs than barbies.  JMO though.

Is there not another school in the area that he could attend?  I know you're probably wanting him in that private, religious setting (I went to a Christian Prep school, so I understand) but I feel like he needs male interaction as well.  Like I said, JMO.

BramblePatch
by Bronze Member on Aug. 4, 2012 at 6:13 PM
I would not send him. Period.
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Gweneveer
by Colleen on Aug. 4, 2012 at 8:24 PM
Lol, this!!

Quoting staffordmommy:

Ladies man ;-)
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MooreMom523
by Bronze Member on Aug. 4, 2012 at 11:40 PM
Just keep in mind that this does mean he may be the only boy in class in first grade,second grade, and so on.
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mjande4
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 9:39 AM

That sends up red flags for me as a school.  The big question for me would be WHY don't other mothers of boys send their kids there?  I would be inclined to be looking elsewhere.

mypbandj
by Jen on Aug. 5, 2012 at 11:10 AM
My friends dd was the only girl in her preK class and even though they tried to look at all the positives (no competition for the girl toys!) it was very hard.

It also depends on your child personality. Some kids couldnt care less who they play with. But the bigger question is this: what happens next year? The problem with small schools like that (I know my kids were in one too) is that the kids don't change often. There is little turnover. So if you have great friends, you're good. If you don't, it can be many years of misery.
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