I think you should tell him that he is to go with NOONE but you and that you will be back as soon as you finish work. Once he makes some friends and becomes familiar with the schedule of the classroom he is in, I don't think it will be a problem anymore.
I think that at some point all kids go through separation anxiety. It'll pass. Just reassure him that you'll be there to pick him up at the end of his day and that you love him very much.
Awww.
Well, give him a time frame for when you want to pick him up. Ask his teacher what they do at the end of the day and say "I am picking you up right after you play outside this afternoon". That way he can look forward to that event :).
Good luck :) :)
Try making a photo book together of you, him, and your family to give him a familial sense of reassurance. You can make this easily on websites like snapfish or even walmart and you can make them in a variety of sizes so that it fits in his little hands.
Include on the pages pictures of each of your family members he's familiar with as well as photo's of all of you together. Make this book WITH him on the computer.
Then let him take the book with him to pre-school. Explain to him that whenever he is feeling sad he can take the book out and look at it and that will make him feel better and he can show the book to his friends and teacher and explain who all the members of his family are. This will reassure him that you are still there in his life (even after you've left the building and gone to work) and that you will return.
I suggest putting a picture in the beginning of the book of you walking him into class and a picture at the end of the book of you picking him up and the family pictures in between those.
Sometimes kids just need a security attatchment, something familiar and home like, to reassure them that they ARE in fact going home at the end of the day everyday. Kids and toddlers have irrational fears just like adults do.
I know how you feel, I hope this works!



- bbyblueAK
on Sep. 21, 2012 at 8:34 AM