My 3 year old has ODD and a SPD. He's a handful needless to say. He refuses to follow any directions whether BIG (don't run into the street) or LITTLE (clean up your toys). He's very aggressive and impulsive. He has a VERY short temper....tantrums are huge....he attacks others and himself (biting, hiting, throwing, kicking, etc). His temper is triggered very easily and it's difficult to get him to calm down. He fights everything...meals, bedtime, naptime, potty training, being nice to others....everything. I'm just so tired of fighting him, why does everything have to be a fight?