I have a friend who wants to take my 4 yr old ds all the time so that he can play with her 4 yr old ds. The boys are great friends but I am just not comfortable with him just going off with her.
We used to have playdates every Tuesday but my ds started pre-K and hers is still going to a Mother's Day Out program twice a week.... so her son gets bored not having something to do every day.
We don't exactly have the same ideas on parenting. She pretty much DOESN'T parent and just lets him do whatever he wants. Like play waaaay down the street all alone :/ I guess I just don't really trust her to keep my son. He's only 4! I didn't think I'd have to worry about him going off to a friend's house for at least a few more years.
The problem is that she's my Dh's boss's wife and I don't want to offend her by saying I'm not comfortable with him going. What do I say?? She's texting me right now.