Your Mom didn't come to your child's baptism b/c they were going to their winter home a little earlier than usual? Basically I had my son on September 19 but had a very hard time with healing and breast feeding so I couldn't do his baptism until late October at best. My Mom usually goes to Flordia in December until April but this year wanted to go down right after Halloween this year. She was going to come visit us and the kids for Halloween and then head out. Due to the hurricane that plan wasn't happening for her. The church didn't have an opening until November 4th but the godparents couldn't make that. So I had to schedule it for November 11She then changed her mind and said she would go to Florida on Novemeber 11 right after the baptism but wouldn't stay for his after party. The kids and I got really sick so I had to postpone the baptism for the 18th of November. She said she didn't want to change her plans again b/c we could get sick again and change it again. So she leaves yesterday which is only a few days away from the celebration. I am very upset about this b.c I couldn't help the hurricane or us getting sick, etc. Would you be upset and how would u handle this? It also upsets me that she wont see the baby for so long and he will grow so fast.