Is driving me crazy lately. He has been throwing tantrums anytime things don't go his way and anytime I try to get him to clean up his messes. He is a very stubborn and willful child. Always has been but he has never been this bad. I am pregnant right now with my third and I am not sure if he senses change is a coming or what! He cries and says he's sad a lot but won't tell me why. I just don't know what to do anymore. Even the littlest things can set him off. He honestly scares me because he is like a ticking time bomb. If he bumps his head its the end of the world and he will blame the nearest person even though it was clearly his own doing. He fights me when its time for preschool and bed. Most days he will be really good when it is just me and him but if his dad or brother are around he becomes this monster. Of course he isn't always like this...sometimes he's this sweet little boy who helps me out and talks nicely to me. Lately I have been seeing a lot more of the dark side of him...ever since we got back from visiting family for the holidays he seems to be acting more tempermental. I was thinking maybe he is ADHD because when we are out in public or even in the house he is all over the place. Like runs around and doesn't stop to see where he is going...constantly falling and hitting his head in to things. He is so uncoordinated. When it comes to his diet he is the pickiest eater. He will only eat PBJ, Spaghetti and maybe pizza. If something appears to be too hot he won't touch it. He won't try anything either. He was a really good eater until he hit age 4. Any advice? Therapy for the whole family? I mostly say that because my DH has been deployed since he and my oldest were babies so they have had a lot of change in there lives. Sorry if I rambled...I am just so at a loss as to what to do to make things better. I love him so much and love being around him! He is such a funny and wonderful little boy when he isn't being a terror! If I made grammer mistakes...I'm sorry...I'm on my way to a dr appt. If you read this thanks again!