Do you and SO agree when it comes to discipline?
I get so aggravated with dh. He never tells dd "no", in fact it's more the opposite. He tends to ag on bad behavior thinking he's just playing with her. They "fight" each other, and the minute she starts throwing a fit about something, he gives in.
With his job, he's off 4 days then works 4 days, so he's home quite a bit. Just about the time I've got her straightened out he comes home and effs it all up. It's so aggravating. I've talked to him, and he just says he doesn't have the heart to get on to her, she's his little girl. I love that he loves her so much, and that he is such a wonderful daddy. But with a new baby on the way, I want him backing me up. Teaching her right from wrong, because I know he will be getting on to her more once a new baby is here. That will just make things that much harder on her, and may even leave her resenting the baby.
I'm torn. And it confuses dd also. One parent tells her no, when she dumping milk on the floor and the other just laughs. Ugh! Someone help me, please!!!