Making the decision not to have more children. Advice?
I know everyone's situation is different and what is right for one family may not be for another. I always thought I wanted 2 children and that's what DH and I agreed on. Well I have 2 children and I now have this overwhelming desire to have another. DH is happy with our family the way it is and would prefer it stay that way although he has said he's not 100 percent against a 3rd. He recently agreed to a 3rd so I started planning. The more I started planning ther more he started seeming like he wasn't for it and I realized he agreed to make me happy. I strongly believe that if one person is not for it then it shouldn't happen. I don't want to do that to him. So I guess my question for you all is how do I cope with being done having children? I don't want to resent him or for it to cause any problems between us, I really want to come to terms with it and be ok. I'm just not sure how. Thank you for your time.