I've tried taking his toys, timeouts, spanking, grounding from certain things, taking special outings away, I've also tried good behavior board to where he got 5 stars in a week he would get a treat and nothing works. I also explain to him why these things are not good and something's can hurt him like the day i caught him "painting" with the toilet bowl cleaner inside the toilet claimed he was cleaning but I told him it could make him sick and it has chemicals.
When I ask him why he's doing these things sometimes he lies like the closet tried telling me it was the cat until I caught him red handed the second time, or he says I don't know it's very rare that he actually gives me a reason.
This is an everyday occurrence it's always something and I'm getting frustrated.. its like he doesn't care about the punishments or getting in trouble. I try to do things with him and give him lots of attention but its hard to take him out to places with him acting out. He also has a major attitude constantly yells at me when he's not getting his way I don't know what to do anymore