My dd is four and in pre-K and she loves it! But there's this one little girl she can NOT get along with. They have been in a few physical fights and today the nurse called me and told me that Lilly (dd) got scratched on the face again! I don't really know what to do. I can tell this little girl isn't very well taken care of and she seems to be in trouble a lot. I'm not saying my kid is completely innocent, but I feel like something should be done. What would you do? Has anyone else been in this situation? I just feel like they are so young and I don't remember ever fighting until like 3rd grade. HELP please!!
So her teacher called me before school let out just to make sure the nurse had called and told me that the other kid was in a lot of trouble. Well I picked dd up from school and asked her what happened and she told me... I asked her again and she said the same thing... I asked her a few more times just to make sure the stories matched up and sure enough they all did. Turns out Lilly scratched her first and ran and the other little girl caught her and scratched her back. Then Lilly started to cry and rounded up her buddies and they all told the teacher. So the other little girl got in trouble and was even sent to the Principal's office and they were talking about suspending her for a few days. Lilly's teacher asked her if she scratched or hit the other girl first AND SHE LIED TO HER!! But did go on to tell the other little girl sorry (from what she says). So I called their teacher and let her know what Lilly had told me. She was happy that I called but said that the other little girl was still in more trouble because she left two huge scratch marks on Lilly's face and Lilly didn't leave any marks. At home, miss Lilly is grounded from her leap pad and the tv for a week. I am sooo upset and don't really know how else to handle this. UGH I feel like I'm raising a high schooler already and I'm only 22!!! Lol. Sorry so long