See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Well it is offical... I must be totally and completly crazy over here... lol... but anyway... my problem or question, whatever, is about my son suddenly not talking... Yes I know he is only almost 2 years old... and I know they don't usually know a lot of words at this age but still a fews ago(the week of jan 19th) JR was talking real good imo, he was starting to tell me what he wanted most of the time, yes he was not perfect at it by any means but still he would talk or try to anyway and tell me what he wanted, like if he wanted food he'd say numm-numm or nummies(his word for food, not sure if it's spellled rioght according to webster but bare with me please.) if he wanted something to drink he'd either say numm-numm or he'd try to say drink which sounds like ink when he says it, really cute imo... he dosen't know a lot of other words but he used to be really good about at least trying to tell me what he wanted or needed. like he had his own ways of telling me things whether he could say the words for it or not, granted I'm trying to teach him to more words every day... But it's like ever since jan 19th(a saturday to be excited) when my M.I.L took jr for the night, I think as kind of a brithday persent to me, jr has hardly said one word when he needs or wants something... I am not saying that my M.I.L did anything wrong to jr but i am saying that she spoiles him and she acts like she dosen't care what we(jr's parents) have to go through when she sends him home to us... she even said yesterday that DH didn't have a say in what happened at her house, like if she spoils jr and just gives him what he wants, as long as it won't hurt him mind you, then he nor I do not have a say in what goes on at her house... she was all like well it is my right my to spoil him ,and send him home to mommy and daddy... I even turnded around and said oh so you think you can spoil him give him whatever he wants when ever or let him get away with not using his words let him get away with mruder so to speak and send him home to me and not care what I have to go through the following week until you see him again huh... ??? and she just looked at me and shook her head yes and laughed a lil at me... I just wanted to get up and leave at that point, superbowl or no superbowl... but I didn't, I just looked at her and dh both and just shook my head... and let it go at that for now anyway... it's like she dosen't get, she dosen't know how to properally raise a child his age or something... I mean seriuosly I am begining to realize at this point what went wrong with three of her sons(not my dh but his three brothers from his mom's side)
idk anymore at this point what I can do anymore at this point... (yes I was a lil pissed off yestorday when I spoke to the m.i.l about this and maybe I shouldn't have been but oh well.)
I mean can I keep her from seeing him if I feel like it is affecting jr in a major way? or could this be something else? should I just let it all go and froget about it and keep living in this hell with a fussy child like this and continue getting nothing done all the time because of how spoiled jr is at this point? or what should I do?
I am out of ideas at this point... and I just want to cry because I feel idk helpless at this point... Oh well please reply with advice if you have any, but I have to go get jr up out of bed now cuz he woke up from his nap again... I probably have a long evening of hell ahead of me and a long night of school I'll have to do to get caught up cuz of all of this but I'll be back as soon as I can thank you, in advance...