my name is Amber, i am new to CafeMom. im a 21 year old full time college student with 2 healthy boys. jaiden, 5. and Antiawn, 2. jaiden i know is in a prime for learning, exploring and figuring out life. but i feel as if he feels the need to be attached to me hip. im not sure if it's because of a jealousy issue with his brother, because his brother is with me more than jai is. and antiawn gets quite a bit of attention. and that brings me to my needy mommas boy. which in whom is Antiawn, my 2 year old. he wont allow me to leav e him at a baby sitters. he will sit there and pull on me, and scream at the top of his lungs. i'd think with how much we are together he'd get sick of me. i dont ever go any where, and i really dont hang out with anyone unless it's my fiancee. so really, it's just us two and our children. i am with my kids as much as i possibly can be, but i feel like my attention is being soaked up in more places than the other. i am not sure how to manage this or make it better. if anyone has advice. please let me know. i am at my wits end.