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Crybaby toddler

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:17 AM
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I'm at my wit's end with trying to figure out my 18 month old. Since infancy he has had bouts of long crying spells that almost make him sick. He was diagnosed with reflux and that has now remedied itself pretty well. But he still cries about four days a week like he's in loads of pain. He kicks and will not let me comfort him, he isn't hungry and doesn't like to be touched. He cries until he gets too tired and falls back to sleep...leaving my stomach tied in knots. I've tried gas drops, rice milk, almond milk, nondairy diets. Nothing helps. If I sing to him he gets more upset at these times. Any suggestions what it might be? Out of four kids, he's the only one I can't figure out :( it only happens at night. During the day he's the happiest and most tolerant kid ever.
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Luvmy2babies22
by Gold Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:33 AM

It doesn't sound like he's a crybaby, it sounds like there may be something going on that you just haven't figured out yet.

My DD has always been like that.  Since she was pretty young we always said "you always know how Bayley is feeling because she isn't shy about letting you know."  As she's older we are starting to see some sensory processing stuff that may have been the root of some things long before she was able to really let us know.  That's not her fault and I sort of feel bad getting as frustrated as I did, but, how could I have known?  Her issues haven't risen to the level of OT yet but we are keeping a close eye on them.

Junebaby18
by Nannerz on Feb. 16, 2013 at 12:43 AM
Is there something he is eating/drinking at night that he doesn't get during the day? Does he just not want to go to sleep when he's supposed to?
lisajo76
by New Member on Feb. 16, 2013 at 1:55 AM
No, he goes to sleep fine but sometimes he wakes up crying like that and I suffer with him because he won't let me hold him or anything. He always has milk before bed. I get the feeling it's his stomach but I don't know what would cause it to hurt. He eats a good share of fresh foods and home cooked meals.


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Is there something he is eating/drinking at night that he doesn't get during the day? Does he just not want to go to sleep when he's supposed to?

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want10more
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 2:22 AM

only at night? i'd not of course rule out a drs visit, but.... my kids have always suffered thru night terrors. my eldest was the worst. he'd cringe away from me in his crib, acted like he was terrified of me. i'd have to pull him out by his foot or arm and just put him on the floor away from me. he wouldn't let me touch him or be near him. i'd sing Jesus loves me over and over and over until finally he'd SEE me, like he'd finally wake up. my 6 yr old n 3 yr old r doing it now, n my 1 yr old just started. they 'look' at me, but they're not SEEING me. try to wake him up. with my eldest i couldn't as i wasn't allowed to touch him. w/ my other 3, i bounce n walk n dance kinda wildly in front of a loud tv station until they're awake. only THEN will they let me comfort them. n don't worry, MY kids were never abused either, it doesn't have to come from that. it doesn't mean that ura bad mom or they r reacting to a bad environment. it's just kinda a freak thingee that happens sometimes. i have started playing soft classical music in their room at night. it's too soon to tell if it's helping but it seems as if it might be a lil.

want10more
by on Feb. 16, 2013 at 2:23 AM

and yeah, MY kids are always huge happy during the day too. i'm not sure they remember it.

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