That young, I would just keep teling her NO with a firm voice. Keep pointing out that it hurts the other person. At that age, not sure what else can be done.
When my DD went through biting phases she was almost always teething BUT you still can't let them do that. When she would bite at that age I would tell her "No biting." and then I'd show her how to touch nicely the area she was biting on and then praise her for touching it nicely. I'd say "We don't bite hands, we touch nicely, like this" and then take her hand and show her how to touch it gently (and then praise the heck out of her). I also would give her a teething toy or chewy tube at that moment, because I realized she probably needed to bite on something because of her teeth. Kids that age are getting heavily into cause and effect and also are learning what TO do so if you redirect her chewing if she has to chew and also show her that she gets lots of praise for touching nicely instead of biting, it shoudl\\ld decrease over time. I'd also add that I wouldn't get very excited about getting bitten because even if you're saying "No biting!" if you are acting excited or yelling , your reaction could be enough to reinforce it to make her want to do it again. ALso, praise her when she chews on her chewy toys. When she bites you just be very calm, look her in the eye and say "No biting" in a low voice, and then proceed to show her what to do. It takes a while but they do eventually realize biting is boring and it's more rewarding to touch nicely and to chew what you want her to chew instead of people.
at that age that was all I've ever done.
Redirect and say no. Too young for discipline.
keep doing what you are doing. look her straight in the eye and put on your best "mommy is disappointed in you" voice when you tell her "we do NOT bite"
Go right to the victim first! Go all out pretending crying and comforting the one that got bitten ignoring her. Do this for a few minutes. Then turn to her and say in a ferm voice 'NO we don't bit!". Then it's right back to the victim again.But just remember, it's all about the victim.
If she is all quite and shocked that you gave so much attention to the victim, then have her go get a icepack to the one she bit and you comfort the one that got bitten... even if they aren't upset.
Once that is all done. Get down in eye level with her and say in a calm sad voice " biting hurts, we don't bite...if you feel like biting bit this (give teething ring)." Because she is probably teething anyways.
It sounds like she is wanting more of your attention. If you give it to the victim.. this will shock her.
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