i have 2 other beautiful healthy kids- andrew is 7yrs and kenny is 3yrs old. We've explained to andrew that Vincent has cancer and will never get better. He hasnt asked if vince will die and i havent gotten to the point of telling him. I will this weekend tho.
To make the most of the time we have with vincent we will b celebrating his birthday every month on the 19th. cuz i dont think he will make it to his 2nd birthday- April19th. Also we will b doing halloween at the end of july and christmas in august. Im hoping he makes it to the actual holidays but i doubt it with how aggressive this cancer is.
It makes it hard at times cuz my husbands job fired him once the baby was hospitalized. He used all his paid time off, sick days and unpaid time off and after thos 9 days he took 2 days off n they fired him. My hubby was in contact with his supervisor everyday and we had sent in doctors notes.fuckers. I work for my parents as a cook in their restaurant but i cant go cuz vincent nurses constantly for food snd comfort and i want to spend every second he has left with him. My aunt was sweet and set up a fundraiser online and my parents help us thankfully.
im not looking for anything by posting this i just wanted to bleed off some of the hurt n sorrow in me.