Help - daughter is a pleaser and a follower.
I just had a talk with her preschool teacher and she told me (in front of my daughter) that she is a huge follower. That she does everything every kid tells her to,do, and if I don't do something about it now, she was going to be bullied at school.
Nedless to say I'm freaking out big time. Se has always been a pleaser when it comes to other children. She has a huge heart and would never hurt anyone's feelings. But, her feelings get hurt very easily and she is a crier. Other kids see that and then make her cry even more.
I consider myself to be a strong woman and want the same for my daughter. I cannot help but feel hit guilty about all of this. Have I screwed up my disgusted by passing my insecurities?
How can I help her self stem to make her see that her feelings are important and she can do as she pleases and not hat other tell her? Should I find a therapist to help her?
Thanks for any advise. I'm pretty lost