Have you ever had these issues with your four year old??
My daughter has been potty trained for over a year and in the last month and a half she suddenly is wetting her pants all the time again. It is a battle to get her to go potty by herself suddenly, unless it's number 2. I've even taken her to the doctor because I thought she might have a UTI, but she didn't. We have a six month old son as well, so trying to take care of a baby and changing my DD constanly got old, so I have her in panties with night diapers on most of the day now. She's still not night trained, so I had the pants.
In addition she has been waking up from nightmares and won't go back to sleep for hours. She's been doing this kind of thing since she was a infant, just wake up and stay awake forever! Even after you lay with her or she comes to bed with us (because she's scared) she still doesn't settle down and go to sleep, she sits up numerous times and figets. I am so tired today, she did that last night and my six month was awake every two hours eating (can't get him to sleep much longer than that suddenly).
My DH sleeps in another room because he works often and is going to school part time, so he needs rest. Right after our DS was born he would have to sleep with our DD, but she got over it and started sleeping alone, she just now has occasional wake up spells (about one a week suddenly).
Any ideas why my dd is peeing her pants and so restless?