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Please HELP! I need advice.

Posted by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 6:19 PM
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question for all older mom that have
too share custody with the other
parents. My step-daughter has come
home back to my us for the past
awhile and has said that her step-dad
when he punishes her he "makes her
lay face down on the bed and puts his
fingers in her mouth." I don't know
what to do.HELP!
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 6:19 PM
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rissat79
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 6:21 PM

Call the police, CPS. WTF

wife-4-life
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 6:40 PM
I am not an older mom nor do I share custody but I'd say what the pp said... Call CPS and call the cops the next time she is over there and have them do a wellness check. I can't even begin to understand who acts like that.... Besides a monster.
iansmommy9
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 8:23 PM

How old is your SD?  I think you might consider addressing it with the other adults before calling the authorities.  Not saying this is the case, but sometimes children can be manipulative.  Kids pick up on anomosity between parents and can run with it.

If that doesn't seem like it would work for your situation, call the police or family services, but don't be surprised if this doesn't meet the elements of a child abuse charge--depending on your state's statute.

EmanLizasMommy
by on Jul. 27, 2014 at 9:04 PM
She is 4years old. And it scares me that he is going to hurt her. And I've had two other adults (my cousin an cousin in law parents of three) tell us too call child services or sit down and talk too the mother. But all she does is yell at my boyfriend when he tries too co parent with her.
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