Don't let that sweet little girl (dd2) up there fool you. Oh my. I am beyond frustrated with her. She has a nasty temper and just very narcissistic (but what 3yo isn't I guess). If it's not how she wants it or it's not her way she has the worst tantrums. I've been consistent with her and cannot seem to get through to her. If there was a toddler boot camp I send her in a heart beat. I've tried so many things to try and correct the behavior. I have 3 kids. She is the only one like this. I've tried giving her distractions and creative stuff to do but it always turns out to be a battle. I've even in a desperate state, tried ignoring the tantrums but the got WORSE. My DH doesn't get it because she isn't like that for him. And when she is she snaps out of it right away when he corrects her with a stern voice. It's so bad that I'm considering getting a job and making DH stay home with the kids. I could pull my hair out. What have I done wrong with her? I've obviously failed her so much!! She is the kid that keeps people from wanting to have kids. I wanted a fourth baby but between dd2 and dd3's health stuff I am soooooooo done. What more can I do???