OK, so life is like this.  I have 8 and 10 year old boys, was young when I had them, got divorced from their dad and share joint custody.  I ended up with a partner who had two from a previous marriage, too.  A girl who's almost 13 (thinks she's 20) and another boy who is almost 11.  Together we then had two more, boys who are 2 and 11 months.  I've always told the four older ones they are driving me crazy, well, I'm officially there!   I'm a stay at home mom, but trying to find a job.  Trying to save our finances and my sanity.  I'll post more on that later.  So, when I have time, I will try to be here, as I can use all the support I could get, and I have lot's of stories and advice.   I talk alot!