I have been on cafemom since oct or nov 2006 and i love it here. I have 2 kids my son Andre who's almost 4 and my daughter Lily is 10 months. They are both wonderful children, my son is so happy to be a big brother he cant get enough of his little sissy. I'am currently a SAHM but im starting my path to my career. My dream used to stay home be with my kids but realized its not realistic in this world right now, plus what happens to me if i lose my husband? Is someone going to hire someone that has no skill or school and hasn't worked in 20 years? I would love to know i would always be safe and be able to afford to stay home with my kids, but i want something for me something i can do when my kids are grown and out of the house. Something i can be proud of that i did all on my own. So i'am going to school to be a L&D nurse then on to be a mid-wife! Im so excited i cant even explain. Its gonna take alot but its all gonna be worth it!