I never really know what to say, so here I go. My name is Tonya and have lived in Modesto, CA all my life. I have been married for 3 years to a wonderful guy named Michael. We have been trying to have a baby for 2 1/2 years, and then finally became pregnant early 2007. I told my husband we were pregnant a day after his birthday. Nine months later our little boy Andrew was born. We are very excited and thankful he is here and healthy. In addition to being a wife and a new mommy, I also work outside the home as a Substance Abuse Counselor. I always get asked if I am in recovery when I tell people what I do, and I am not. I have never been addicted to drugs and/or alcohol. I am what you would call a "normie". I am looking forward to meeting new mommies and learning how to use the site.