I am a single mother of two, 16 and 13, as any mother I treasure them and are devoted to them. BUT, no fair, we should of received guides to the Teen years. After 18 yrs of marriage I am on a new discovery of myself, from the inside out. Reading and Researching, but reality is. In my world it don't happen. So where do I go, do I wait for the kids to leave the nest, or do I move on. I just don't want to settle and think I have to, I am mentally different, but sad thing is I'm not in the mood. LOL. Wow when did this all happen to me?