I've got two BEAUTIFUL little girls that are absolutely the joy of my life, a WONDERFUL husband who loves me better than I've ever been loved (and I haven't led a loveless life!) and a job that I love.  I'd say I'm doing well.  I'm a pantheist, a daddy's girl, and a city-slicker.  My kids are my world, but my life is my own.  I can respect people who make their kids their lives, but it's not for me.  Their needs come first, absolutely, but after them, I'm still here, and I'm not ashamed to say that I enjoy an evening out with just my husband and me (as rare as those occurrences are) and I do enjoy an intelligent, grown-up conversation!  (Though hearing about what Jennifer said to Lydia about Nikki when Jayla was on the playground with Michael has its time and place, too :-P)

After getting fed up with the constant bickering and belittling I saw in a bunch of my other groups, I went ahead and started my own, and now, "Celebrate Diversity!" is like a second home to me and some of the other girls who just wanted a place where we CAN "all just get along!"  We regard each other's individuality with respect and, more often than not, curiosity.  It's a great environment, and it's most of the reason I have to say "My name is Jessica, and I'm a cafemomaholic."