EllenMeister

EllenMeister

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"Nervous that my son is not feeling well again"

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About

  • Location: Long Island
  • Mom of: 3 kid(s)
  • Interests: writing , reading , publishing ...
  • Last Login: 11/22/09
  • Profile Views: 19,733

Kids

  • Girl
    11 years old

    When she says something...

  • Boy
    14 years old

    He's my vid kid--nearly...

  • Boy
    17 years old

    My oldest is a wonderkid...

  • Journal Posts

    Forgive me for bragging

    by EllenMeister posted at 8:07 AM on Nov. 21

    70 Views
    8 Comments

    REJECT NEW MAMMOGRAM GUIDELINES!!!!

    by EllenMeister posted at 8:25 AM on Nov. 18

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    72 Comments
    27 Views
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    Are you buying books for the holidays?

    by EllenMeister posted at 8:37 AM on Nov. 12

    43 Views
    3 Comments

    My son is doing better!

    by EllenMeister posted at 9:51 AM on Nov. 8

    77 Views
    12 Comments
  • Personal Statement

    Hello moms! I hope you're loving CafeMom as much as I am, and finding the time to enjoy your kids and pursue your dreams. Here's a little about me ...

    Eight years ago I decided to stop procrastinating and pursue my dream of writing a novel. Making that happen with three small kids posed a challenge, but I decided that I could do it if I got up at 5 every day and wrote before the family awoke.

    There was only one problem. I had no idea what to write about.

    Then, in the middle of a PTA meeting, as I looked around, feeling like no one in the room had any idea I had an inner life behind the smiling PTA face I presented, it occurred to me that everyone felt something pretty similar. That's when I decided I wanted to write about these types of women and explore their secret dreams, passions, pain and joy .

    Two years later I had a completed manuscript. Nine months after that I had a literary agent. Another six months and I had a book deal with a major publisher, HarperCollins.

    It's called SECRET CONFESSIONS OF THE APPLEWOOD PTA, and it's a friendship story about three women who conspire to get a George Clooney movie filmed in their hometown. If you'd like to learn more about it, you can visit  ellenmeister.com, or see what readers are saying about it over at Amazon.com. I also have a blog called Side Dish. I hope you'll stop in.

    My second novel, THE SMART ONE, came out last summer. It's a sister story that has, I hope, as much humor as heartache. It got wonderful reviews, which is so gratifying. Better yet, the letters I get from readers really touch my heart.

    My third novel sold at auction to Putnam, and it will come out in 2010. More news on that soon.

    On the mommy side of my life, I have three incredible kids who make me laugh until I'm gasping for oxygen. I can't figure out how to write about them without sounding like I'm bragging, so I'll just say that they make me proud enough to cry.

    I'd love to hear from other moms about their dreams and passions!

  • For Writers

    Sometimes I hear from friends who want to how to get published. Since Jennifer Weiner has already done a better job of tackling that than I ever could, I'll just send you to her site ... click here.

    I know that self-publishing is a touchy subject around here because so many people do it, but I have to be honest--I do not advocate it except the in the rarest of circumstances. These are outlined here. If you don't fall into one of those three categories, self-publishing will make you poorer, not richer.

    I have a group here on CafeMom called the Authors' Den. It's dedicated to the business side of writing and publishing, so if you're an aspiring or published author I hope you'll join.

    And finally, I regret that I can't read/critique anyone's writing. However, there are several excellent workshop groups here on CafeMom and they're easy to find by using the search tool. Outside of CafeMom, there's an excellent free online workshop group called Zoetrope.com.

    Books I recommend to writers include:

    Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott (inspirational with lots of good writing tips)
    Stephen King's On Writing (ditto)
    Make a Scene by Jordan Rosenfeld (great nuts & bolts advice for fiction writers)
    Forest for the Trees by Betsy Lerner (terrific insights from an industry insider)
    The First Five Pages by Noah Lukeman (marketing-oriented approach for novelists)
    The Author's Guide to Planning Book Events by Carol Hoenig (self explanatory)

  • About Me

    • Girl 11 years old

      When she says something...

    • Boy 14 years old

      He's my vid kid--nearly...

    • Boy 17 years old

      My oldest is a wonderkid...

  • What is a bookplate?

  • Reading from my first book, SECRET CONFESSIONS OF THE APPLEWOOD PTA

  • Newsflash

    My philosophy on pass-along emails

    H i friends. I just want to post about pass-along emails so no one is offended when I don't respond. Please know that I don't participate in ANY such group emails, so it's nothing personal. My reasons are are follows: 1. I don't believe in clogging up the system (or the internet itself) with these forwarded messages, as fun as they might be. 2. My schedule is utterly and completely overwhelming, and several things just had to be ruthlessly cut. Scrubbing toilets is one. Responding to forwarded mass emails is another. I DO try to answer all personal emails. 3. It IS against the rules here, which I think is perfectly valid. So even if your emails claim to test my friendship by whether I respond, I won't. I do hope you understand!
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    elwalters77 wrote at 7:29 AM on Nov. 21

    elwalters77

    Join us on CafeMom's new New York Moms group:
    http://www.cafemom.com/group/107955
    We're planning to keep it active and make it a great group!
    Hope to see you there!

    Jillysmom wrote at 11:08 PM on Nov. 20

    Jillysmom

    Join us on CafeMom's new New York Moms group:
    http://www.cafemom.com/group/107955
    We're planning to keep it active and make it a great group!
    Hope to see you there!

    PHILLYMOM06 wrote at 9:11 PM on Nov. 20

    PHILLYMOM06

    ♫ you are very welcome ♫

    evwsquared wrote at 1:42 PM on Nov. 20

    evwsquared

    Thanks! That makes me feel better. I hope that your day goes better. Someone needs to put up a freakin' hilarious journal for all of us!

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