I have learned that there many freedoms that I must forego to be a good mother. However, I have found more freedom and clarity simply by looking into the eyes of my children. A wise man once said, "there is no softer pillow than a clear conscience." My mind is not clouded, nor is my conscience... I will sleep like an angel because I know that my self-sacrifice has been offered up with love (not just obligation) and has not gone in vain.