I am the mother of two sons, 1 married with a child of his own and 1 who will be long in growing up.  21 and 19.  I am a substance abuse counselor and I do the best that I can do in all the worlds in which I live.  I have in the many years I have lived realized that what our children do has very little to do with us personally.  As a questionable teenager myself, my parents were not the target of my misbehavior, I was, life was, karma was, but it was directed at my parents.  Luckly I have had the chance of apologizing for my stupidity.......My all teens one day realize that parents are not half as dumb as we think they are.......I have found a new chance at a new life.  It is the Secret of the ages and it is all about the way you think...I think good and I bring good...Here is to good thoughts for ever and a day......www.thesecret.tv/
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