I am a working mother-to-be, this is my first pregnancy and I am very nervous.....no..I am scared shit less. I am not married, I kinda got caught in the process....I guess I will be wearing BLACK on my wedding day. My fiance is needless to say absolutely clueless on what to do with a baby, but he is excited and scared all at once. We have already moved into a bigger place so my baby has a room that needs to be done ASAP...I have some ideas but I just don't know.....I want the room that not only my child will love but I will love too. I used to enjoy staying out late drinking and partying till dawn with my friends but now I AM A MOMMY! YIKES! Now I enjoy sleeping late and going to bed early, sex is sex right now I am waiting for that time in my pregnancy when its suppose to be great because boy do I miss the sound of our screams of enjoyment. I used to be my Mother-in-law to be's lovely daughter and we were the best of friends now it seems like she hates me now that I am pregnant. We don't speak or should i say she chooses not to call or answer my calls, and the way she looks at me now. She mind as well be striking outside my home in her own personal picket line with "Get an Abortion" and "Man trapping women" signs. But all in one nutshell I am happy I am pregnant and so is my Fiance. We enjoy going to visits and my family is excited too, even though this pregnancy was unplanned. I am just looking for other women who are like me, working and non-working. We are all mother's and mother's need to stick together. "It takes a village to raise a child" and we are all apart of that village.