Now about me I'm known to everybody that means something to as Lillie or Mrs. Jefferson to those who don't matter and I was born and raised in Chicago,IL also known as the Windy City. My family and friends are the most important thing in my life. So now that we have that out the way here we go I'm a 27 year old mother of 7 and I'm married to one of the best men in the world. My husband  a Soldier in the US  Army that why we are in Fort Drum, NY or where ever else they send us. We have been married for almost five years and together almost 8 years. I couldn't ask for anyone better than him. He is and will always be my HERO no matter what anybody else thinks of him and what he is doing. He is a wonderful dad and stepfather  to my three oldest one as well as the four we have together. We all have problems in our life its just whats your willing to hold to and work at to keep and this is one thing that's worth keeping. I'm the youngest so I take on a lot of responsibility that I shouldn't but if  your lucky enough to become my friend or part of my family you'll never have to worry about a thing as long as we are friends. I'm a nice person and I think a little bit to nice if you ask me. I hate to be used and disrespected. If I feel your doing it then we might have a problem LOL naw I'm a lover not a fighter. I'm Just looking for somebody who can become life-long friends or someone to just talk to.