Hello...My name is Carly and I am 30. In my head I am still a cute and skinny 22 year old and then I see my own reflection and literally think who the hell is that? I left high school at 16, got married at 17. Had my son, Gavin, at 19. Took a job as an insurance agent and did that until I was surprised to find out I was pregnant with my daughter when I was 26. Had to be on and off bed rest so I quit working and stayed home. Now I work from home moderating a website I designed for military families.  My husband is the coolest person I know even when he is being a dick. He is Air Force and we are currently stationed in Misawa Japan.  I love it here and I am evening getting pretty good with the language.  We celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary on February 15th. Almost a year ago I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and another autoimmune disorder that causes muscles weakness.  My pain level makes life unbearable sometimes but I am trying really hard to focus on the positive.  We are currently in the process of moving to Arizona to a base that will be better able to treat me.