HIWTH

hmmm what is there to say about me.. I'm a stay at home mom of three kids..my oldest zachary is eight (6-26-02) my middle child kaitlyn aka katie or kat is six (1-8-04) and then we have the baby michael who is five (11-18-05)..My husband and i just got married last june.. We got married June 27th 2008..after years of waiting..lol..we started dating April 5th 2001 and got engaged on Jan.1st 2002 ,six months before our first child was born..um lets see...im an average mom, with normal everyday difficulties..i just happen to have a special needs child in my house and another who has speech therepy..so its as normal as it gets in my house..all depending on what you call normal..on top of that im majoring in Early childhood education. um lets see.. how about i give you my top ten things you should know about me and then my top ten pet pieves.lol

 little facts about me 

*my kids always come first....family first is my motto

* i dont go anywhere with out my kids.. just how i am.. they have nvr been with a sitter. except maybe once.

*having a special needs child has made me a better person..i have learned that just bc some one is different doesnt make them a bad person or a good person..take ppl as they are.

*home town and state.. CEDAR RAPIDS, IA

*I love cowboys..my babe is a wonderful man and a pure hick...thats why i love him

*graudated from antigo high school but just barely..if you want to know the story just ask.

*im just simple plain me. take it or leave it

*Im 110% pure pro-life

* i am seriously in love with twilight. i luv edward, and am addicted to the movies and the books

top pet peeves

*fake ppl.. ppl who pretend to be ppl they arent

*ppl who claim to be your friends but arent.

*close to the same thing as two...backstabbers...someone you tell something to in complete conviedence and they run off and tell ppl..or they say they arent say they arent spreading rumors about you but they are..that really erks me.

*ppl who judge you for your beliefs and looks..come on now ppl...what happened to loving a person for who they are

*politicians...they say they will do one thing and then they do another

*.ppl who are like #5 say they will do something for you or will be somewhere for you ect...and then nvr do..

*ppl who judge parents of special needs children... who blame their parents for their conditions...only a very few parents actual caused it.

*.ppl who let their kids use their special needs as a crutch....such as kicking or biting, when they know they shouldnt...or letting them use it as an excuse...i have a special needs son..and if he does wrong we tell him he did wrong...he goes on time outs and you name it.

*ppl who use their children's special needs just to get money...which thus they dont end up spending on their special needs child and what they need..and end up spending their ssi on themselves...

and ok one last one...

*Those who lie about getting raped or say they have miscarried just so they can get attention.. not saying anyone on here is...but where i am from there are a few girls who like to do it.. it gets annoying..expecially when there are a few like myself who have had to go through the pain of being raped or losing their child..i have had to deal with both personally..and its not a matter to joke about. 

im an open book if there is something you want to know ask.if...if you want to be my friend cool..if not ok anyway god bless and have a nice day