Mother of 4 kid(s)
Location: Sunny California
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  • About Me

    • Caleb Caleb 19 years old

      God's gift to me. My son...

    • Girl Kathern 31 years old

      Kathern was my first foster...

    • Cathy Cathy 36 years old

      Cathy was my second foster...

    • Richard Richard 37 years old

      Richard was my first foster...

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  • Journal Posts

    God picked me

    by Momtalk posted at 8:17 PM on May. 6 , 2008


    Brunettes have just as much fun!

    by Momtalk posted at 11:47 PM on Oct. 25 , 2007


    He'll Change . . . Famous Last Words!

    by Momtalk posted at 10:29 AM on Aug. 15 , 2007


    My son's 1st Published Book!

    by Momtalk posted at 12:57 AM on Jun. 7 , 2007


    Not yet . . .

    by Momtalk posted at 3:24 PM on May. 17 , 2007

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    As a former Mrs. USA 1995, I was a foster mother and a pageant celebrity trying to change the world. I ended up being the one that was changed! My marriage of 10 years came to an embarrassing end when me and my 1 year old son were left to figure out life on our own while my ex-DH (that's ex darn husband, NOT darling husband!) chose a life of drugs and alcohol. Then I had to figure out how to make life work as a single mom with a deadbeat ex causing us problems. I am now 37, remarried, and have seen God's goodness over the years. In fact, His goodness has always been there, life can just really suck sometimes, and I hope to leave a hope that God's goodness can always be found in the midst of bad. I joined cafemom because there are so many others who have been through hardships, and if we will listen to others and offer up our own advice, we can get through and triumph over what might derail us!

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    cookingmomma790 wrote at 5:50 PM on Nov. 6 , 2012


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    kayjaymom wrote at 9:53 AM on Oct. 23 , 2008


    My marriage is going okay. Everday I am praying for restoration. In my heart I freel that God is working it out. I don't know what my husband is feelin gbut at least he is acting cordial to me and spendin gtime with the children.

    TotallyTart wrote at 11:36 PM on May. 31 , 2008


    ♥ * Dropping* + ♥
    ♥ ♥* Off+ ♥ ♥ + *Love♥♥♥♥♥
    . * *For YOU...Always every* .
    + . . * minute* . + * .
    ♥ ... * And everyday.* +♥♥♥♥♥+(¯`v´¯)
    `*.¸.*´ Love to You ¸.•´¸.•*¨)xoxoxo, Lisa..
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    Aholt wrote at 9:42 PM on May. 7 , 2008


    Thanks for your encouragement and kind words. I pray that our Father continues to meet you at the point of your need and shower His loving mercies over you and yours.

    TotallyTart wrote at 9:03 PM on May. 6 , 2008


    I though maybe you left the cafe since I hadn't heard from you in so long I'm glad to hear you are well i missed you so glad to see you again...xoxoxoxox, Lisa

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