I am so glad that you got to sit down and talk to your husband and it sounds like he understood, so you took the first step and i bet you feel a lot better. so happy for you. take care and if you still need to talk i am here.
we're doing better thank you! I got to sit down with my husband last night after I put the kids to bed and actual talk to him about it and how it made me feel and the steps I needed to have happen to be happy for me. We decided to draw a line with his mother that she is only allowed to call 3 times a week for the time being and she needs to be invited over to our house instead of just an open invitation.