I am a 20 year old mother of a four month old boy. I have been married to my soul mate and best friend since I was 18. Other than that, I am constantly trying to get adjusted to the life of taking care of a newborn, I guess I never will, who can really? It's constant work, with no breaks. However, my boy is the cutest thing ever. There are good times and there are bad times, that's my motto. - Back when I had more time, I read all the time, I loved to learn about anything and everything, I traveled, I went on constant adventures - mostly hiking, biking, swimming, and etcetera. I love being healthy, I love school, and I duno? I am still trying to figure out where my life is going; as, I always will be. I don't know who I am as a mom yet? But I am starting to figure it out. The one thing I do know is that I want my son to know he is loved, that he can be whoever he wants to be and I will love him for it, and I just want him to know that he can be himself and he doesn't have to impress anyone. Other than that - I want him to have a fun, adventurous, well-educated life. ALSO: "I want to be successful at life," not with materialistic or vain accomplishments. :o) Being a mother, wife, friend, giver, daughter, good person, etceteras are what matter. I want to achieve things, but they don't actually matter in the end. - I am starting to become who I am as a mommy, and I'm loving it. :o)