I never thought I'd be a mom until I met my husband; he was the first guy that I ever trusted to be a father for life. I love my family but don't take enough time for myself. One of my goals is to start taking an evening or two away from my son so that I can be renewed and refreshed, which makes me a better mama. That is part of why I am here at CafeMom; to be in the company of women in similar situations. We are due to have our 2nd monkey in mid-October 2009.