I'm an older woman married 28 years. Was not physically able to bear children and construction work kept us moving frequently early on so felt that may not be fair to an adopted child. Did live with and assist my teenage sister with the first 5 yrs of her child's life. Lived in 9 states and 14 cities in the first fourteen years of marriage. Have "furry feline children" as surrogates for real children. Identify strongly with family oriented people coming from a large family with many uncles, aunts and cousins. Do not identify at all with any sort of swinging single lifestyle.