Older woman married 28 years.Not physically able to bear children but did live with and assist my teenage sister with the first 5 yrs of her child's life. Lived in 9 states and 14 cities in the first fourteen years of marriage. Identify strongly with family oriented people coming from a large family with many uncles, aunts and cousins. Do not identify at all with any sort of swinging single lifestyle. Strongly suspects that so-called "anonymous" people on CafeMom are staffers getting the ball rolling, and that sucks since the topics are nasty and they all write, and respond, like trolls.