I' am a mother of 4. Been married twice. My first husband divorced me right after the honey moon 2 weeks before the wedding our daughter was born and I think he had his hopes up pretty high for the baby to be a boy and when he found out it was a girl he took off and no one has seen him until the wedding not even his own mother we were still in high school at they time he never even showed up at school we all were thinking he was not gonna show up at the wedding but he did and he made  sure I had a bad time like when it was his turn to say I do he turns his head and says it very quietly and for the part you may now kiss the bride he kissed me on the cheek and he only had one dance with me and he made sure I had a bad time on the honey moon too just so i will say yes to the divorce and I was not gonna sign the papers at all so he takes my hand and made me sign our daughter is 14 years today and after all these years I still love him he is my true love but I'm not his he been married 3 other times and he his finally found his true love and the guy I'm with today I do love him but I just love my first husband more so this is the reason why I say Life Is Not Fare. I did had 2 kids with the husband I'm married to today it took me 12 years to get re married there was another I was engaged with but i caught him cheating on me and I was in my early pregnancy with my last kid and he was the father of it too but the guy I had 2 kids with set of twins he was my boyfriend before I meant my first husband then went back with him after the divorce and again but the one guy was gonna marry cheated on me so I thought to marry him since I'm always going back with him but I still wish I could be with my first husband but I cant. LIFE IS JUST NOT FARE.