I am 28 years old, have two beautiful little girls.   Lillian is 3 and Addison is 1.  I can not imagine my life with out them, they are the perfect fit. I work full time and am hoping someday, that it won't always be that way, but until then I am doing the best I can and living life to the fullest.  Daycare has been my biggest struggle as a mom, trying to find the perfect fit for my kids and being able to walk away knowing that they are in a loving enviroment.  I have learned a lot for Lillian, with her being my first.  She has taught me to let go, no one is perfect and those who love you, will no matter what.  My house can always be cleaned another day...because life is short and goes by way too quickly, there are more important things to do, such as playing, eating a snack and having random dance parties any time of day.  I have become one of those annoying people who love talking about their kids, because they are mine and I am a proud mommy.  I have realized life isn't perfect and a marriage takes work and you owe it to your children to work at it, but you also have to find a balance with time.  There is never enough, but you need yours, you need it as a couple and as a family...don't feel guilty when it is time for just you.  As a mom, I find this to be a constant struggle but in the end, I am a better person for having that time just for me.  My husband and I are better as a couple for having that time just for us and my family is better when we are together doing things we love.  All I can say is, I love this life.